Hi Julie,
I agree with Dr.LG on this.  It isn’t quite fair for you to say that Gorgeous One’s gf has a golden pussy complex just because he’s overhauling his furnishings for her since she’s moving in.  Perhaps she doesn’t and all there is to it is that Gorgeous One is in love and wants to make her happy by being “proactive and compromises” with her on certain things.As for becoming someone with a golden pussy, well for starters I’d like to know whether you know for sure (for yourself) what you’re looking for in a man you want to be in a relationship with long-term?  I say this because multiple men to choose from isn’t really quite the solution to this.  Secondly, are you happy with yourself and where you are in life?  I ask this because happy, confident, positive men and women are very attractive to the opposite sex.  Last, are you completely ready and open to attract the right man for you???  I ask this 3rd question because when we aren’t in a good place in our lives yet, we put out that aura and attract the not so ideal individuals for us.Best of luck on your search for your Mr. Right,Maria   

I feel the same way regarding the ‘common denominator’ factor.  In all the dates; good ones, bad ones, mediocre ones, WE are the only common denominator.  If we can change the way we go about dating and really invest ourselves in it instead of seeing it as a game of numbers or quantity over quality, then I bet both of us would have better luck.